Our beloved cat Tootie Fruity had to be put down on Friday 7/30/10.
I miss her terribly and I still keep having phantom Tootie moments when I walk into a room and something catches the corner of my eye I think it is her.
A friend was adopted by a pregnant cat a few months ago and the cat gave birth 4 weeks ago. As soon as the kittens are weened (in about 2 weeks) we will adopt one. Dick and I went to see the kittens last week. Even though they are cute and cuddly, I felt no excitement (possibly the effect of grief).
I am grateful I didn't follow my immediate reaction to get a replacement cat/kitten right away. I did go window-shopping at the local pet store as an emotional exercise. It did cross my mind I would be comparing the new pet with Tootie. Our relationship was unique, as all relationships should be.
In the meantime, time without Tootie is proving to be cathartic.
This new kitten is going to be so important in Jack's life. They will be best buddies - just like Tootie and I were.
